To Forgive and Forget

To forgive a person, the person must first admit that he or she has
made a mistake.
If he or she does not admit that it is a mistake, of course he or she
will never ever ask for forgiveness.

Maybe to you it is a big mistake. Super big. Humongous. But for the
person, it is nothing. It is common and acceptable. Hence, either one
must learn to adapt - either to admit that the action was wrong and
ask for forgiveness or for the other person to learn to accept that
there is nothing wrong at all!!!

People expect different things in life because each of us has
different set of values, principles, obedience to teachings of the
religion, ambition and finally, what you want to bring on to your life
after this life. Not to mention, what legacy you want to leave behind
for your children and their children and their children. Due to this
very differences, Allah has said it in His verse, for us to get to
know each other and recognize that it is one of the signs of the
prowess of the Almighty. Alhamdullillah. Ada sebab kenapa semuanya
berlaku. Kita juga insan yg penuh dosa dan banyak membuat kesalahan.
Kena selalu solat sunat taubat.

Ustaz kata, org pompuan punya memori yg sgt bagus, jauh lebih hebat
dari komputer chip. Kalau file dlm komputer kita delete, dia akan dok
kat Recycle Bin. Then bila kita delete, dia akan delete terus. Unless
you put a hacker to extract back all the deleted files. Tapi org
pompuan, dia akan ingat sampai mati. Sampai bila2 lah. Memori ni akan
tersimpan kemas deep inside the brain, and can be extracted anytime
when the need arises. Inilah kelebihan org pompuan. Tapi ini juga
merupakan kelemahan pada org pompuan. There are certain events where
we want to delete the memories forever, but it can never be deleted.
Ever. Susah wooo....kadang2 rasa aku dah x nak ingat mende ni. Tapi
mende ni mcm piring hitam sentiasa berputar2...esp when we are
frustrated or disappointed. How to delete it? Forever?