Wednesday, December 29, 2010

My Tefal My Dear

We went to Genting Highlands again last weekend, after 1.5 years. Things have not changed much, but this time we brought along 5 other people. It must have been a thrilling once-in-a-lifetime for these people though. This time I tried the Space Shot. It was a drop dead shot from top of the tower, almost like 200m high? Man oh man....it was nice view on top of the Space Shot, you could see the Genting resort at its peak. But the sudden drop after that was the most precarious. It was like people pulling over your chair and you fall down hard, very hard. I surely let my heart out on that. But it was nice. It was the first ride, and I felt like to ride on it again, except that time was limited to cover the almost 40 rides available. I will have to wait for Eusoff to come of age, so that he too can enjoy most of the rides. Poor Husna, the rides are either too tall for her (meant for adults) or too low for her (meant for kids below age 4). It's tough when your height is caught in between. Nevertheless she got to enjoy the boat rides and log ride where the water would splash at the end and definitely makes you wet (I argued with Mr.X, since he said he wouldn't get wet, until proven guilty - I told you so).
 
I wrote about how to confront the dearest mom-in-law when she used my steel spatula for the almost brand new Tefal frying pan in my Facebook last night. The response was overwhelming. From both men and women. How thoughtful of these people, thanks so much. OK, it may sound trivia to some, but it is a big deal for me OK. I bought the Tefal frying pan from Mustaffa Center Singapore last Sept. 2010, after a long investigation and pondering over it again and again. It's like a tool to motivate you to cook. Somehow your dish will taste better and looks better when it is cooked using the branded pan. It's that kind of feelings. That satisfaction of using the non-stick branded frying pan. Nothing can compare to that satisfaction in the kitchen, and at that dinner table. Because of its exclusivity, I hang it on the kitchen's window, to be used only for cooking of omelette and any vegie dish, of course by using wooden spatula. Everybody knows that. You are supposed to know that. It's like e=MC2 by Einstein. Who doesn't know it?
 
I was actually dumbfounded when I found the pan with steel spatula in it on my stove when I came home yesterday. Like who's on earth doesn't know the rule....non-stick pan requires wooden utensils. Get it? So the surface won't get scratched and you will end up ruining that special layer. Get it? Aiyaiyaiyaiyai.....I quickly washed them over and dried both items. I was at awed. Should I say something - Dear Mom-in-Law, I expect you to know the rule, how on earth you don't know the rule. Apparently it is not in your universe to care for such things. This one sounds very bad. I shall be labelled as overly materialistic. But then who cares? But to be an obedient child-in-law mind you, I kept quiet. It is that battle to say it out loud - next time for this type of pan, please use the wooden spatula. I care for my pan just like Sponge Bob cares for his spatula OK. Hahaha....
 
Is there any remote chance that she actually knows the rule, but just to proof something to me? To test me? Enough of all the tests laaaaa....I have long suffered already....hahahhahaa....

Friday, December 17, 2010

Pilihlah Yang Terbaik

Ada orang memilih jalan yang menyakitkan, walaupun jalan yang mudah telah tersedia.
Ada orang memilih untuk bersengketa, walaupun jalan muhibbah itu lebih berkat.
Ada orang memilih untuk menerajui KPI sendiri at the expense of the team, walaupun kata pujangga - Bersatu Kita Teguh, Bercerai Kita Roboh.
Ada orang memilih untuk memijak kepala staf2 dia bawah untuk menonjolkan diri, walaupun dia tahu Allah tahu akan niat tersembunyi setiap insan.
Ada orang memilih untuk kejayaan singkat, walaupun dia tahu matlamat jangka panjang perlu didahulukan.
Ada orang memilih untuk memikirkan kepentingan diniya sendiri sahaja sepanjang masa, walaupun dia tahu kubur itu sempit dan doa orang yg masih hidup itu perlu utk meringankan seksaan.
Ada orang memilih untuk mengusai hal2 duniawi dan berjaya di dunia, walaupun dia tahu kehidupan di akhirat adalah yg kekal abadi.
Ada orang memilih untuk berdiam diri bila melihat kemungkaran, wlaupun dia tahu malaikat ada disebelah kanan dan kiri dan sentiasa bersedia untuk mencatit apa yg terzahir dan apa yg ada di dalam kalbunya.
 
Apakah yg akan terjadi kepada orang2 yg bersikap negatif seperti di atas?
 
Bekerja adalah ibadah. Setiap niat, pergerakan dan matlamat perjuangan di dalam pekerjaan adalah ibadah. Dah namanya ibadah, buat lah perkara2 yg menyenangkan hati, secara ikhlas.
Janganlah pula memilih jalan yg bertentangan.
 
Antara Tips untuk menjadi Orang Cemerlang karya Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah, sentiasalah Mengingati Mati. Mungkin mati itu telah hampir, tetapi kita tidak ambik pot.
Itulah antara kata2 perangsang staf aku kat ofis pagi ni. Bagus betul. Nabi pon kata, orang yg bijak ialah orang yg senantiasa memikirkan tentang kematian.
 
Mudah-mudahan bahan ini dapat menjadi santapan minda di hari Jumaat yg mulia ini.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Wisdom of New Year

Does age come with wisdom or does wisdom comes of age?
Or does it boil down to your life's exposure and challenges which you have to face?
The more work or life challenges you face, the more wisdom you will gather. Yes? No?
 
When something happens to you, mostly events where you consider as "bad luck", you will despise the event. But soon, as in the Malay community, people will say - "Sabarlah, mesti ada hikmah di sebalik ujian ini, atau di sebalik terjadinya perkara ini". It sounds as a little bit cliche, albeit true. There are always hikmahs behind a bad event, only you will realize it later if not sooner. As a result, to comfort yourself of any bad events, try to convince yourself that - there will definitely be something positive here. Dig and you will concur.
 
As in the marriage life, you can never know your partner's overall true color until the day you die. BUT, if something unexpected were to happen (the bad ones la...e.g. husband got transferred elsewhere further from your eyes and nose), it will expedite the emergence of the true color of the couple - for both men and women. If trial like this happens, we can judge and see how much perseverance, strengths, patience and loyalty both parties have to overcome the endless challenges they have to face. Getting out from it, the phase of "getting to know each other up to the bottom of it" will either makes the marriage better or worst. This kind of exposure, especially when couples are separated for a very long time, would undoubtedly bring them up one level higher in their relationship. But then again, caution here, people can change. It can never be "ceteris paribus", or so I learnt during my Economics class back in college. We can only hope for the best.
 
People change. That's a fact. In conjunction with this Maal Hijrah - well today is the 2nd Muharam, I hope people around me and also myself, will change for the better. All those life experiences, should be reflected and converted into pieces of key learnings, which will make us better individuals, or much better Muslims and Muslimahs. As the years pass by, so do our life's experiences. Go and seek new challenges, meet new people, try new things and try to revive and cherish whatever you already have, people who you love and especially with your parents (caution : mom in law tak masuk). Haha....that one is a great barrier reef which I have not understood how to swim and scuba dive into....
 
Experience can be converted into wisdom, when we reflect on it and try to find all the hikmahs or the good things behind its happenings.
 
Therefore, I am of the opinion that wisdom definitely comes with age. Not the other way.

Girl Power Giler


Wednesday December 8, 2010

Zeti first woman to get Tokoh Ma'al Hijrah award


PUTRAJAYA: Bank Negara Governor Tan Sri Dr Zeti Akhtar Aziz was named Tokoh Ma'al Hijrah 1432H at the national-level celebration of the Muslim New Year at the Putrajaya International Convention Centre here yesterday.

Zeti, 63, is the first woman named as the recipient of the award since it was introduced 24 years ago.

The award comes with RM100,000 in cash, medal, plaque and certificate.

Interestingly, Dr Zeti's father, Royal Professor Ungku Abdul Aziz Ungku Abdul Hamid, was the recipient 11 years ago. He was present at the event to see his daughter receive the award from the Yang di-Pertuan Agong Tuanku Mizan Zainal Abidin.

Speaking to reporters later, she said: "This will be an encouragement and inspiration for me to continue to work hard."

Saying he was very proud of his daughter, Ungku Aziz said her success was due to her own hard work.

He said he had never told Dr Zeti what studies or job to take up as he believed she should make her own decisions.

"I always gave her the freedom to decide. She chose what studies she wanted to pursue and the areas she wanted to carry out her doctorate in," he said.

The award recognises her work in enhancing the national economy and developing and transforming the country's financial system into one that is competitive and strong.

She also led the country out of the economic slowdown and ensured Malaysia's continued economic growth.

Her contributions have not been limited to within the country as she has also played an important role in developing financial cooperation in the region.

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Dr. Zeti said as well that this is a motivation for women to achieve greater heights and strive for excellence. I heard it over the radio this morning and she was talking inspirationally to all women out there. Why the heck the newspaper talked about the father's view point??? I bet the reporter for NST is a man.

She said that women at work must prove that we can also excel, same as our male counterpart. Just like at Bank Negara, the Timbalan is also a lady and the 2 Ketua Penolong Pengarah, guess what...are also ladies....huhu.....I wonder what she'll do with the 100k.....beli gold bar ke, beli tanah ke, beli amanah saham ke, or she'll spend it for overseas trip ka, wow....best nyer dapat rezeki terpijak like that.....this is 1 hell of a lady that deserves highest amount of respect from male and female in Malaysia. Thoughts for the day.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Hermoine the Girl

I watched Harry Potter movie last 2 weeks and totally at awed with the growing up of the leading role the actress Emma Watson (betul kan?). She played Hermoine (pronounced as Harmaini). She was just so gorgeous, from being a cute little blond girl from previous Harry Potter movies to this so decent-looking, smart and very beautiful teenage girl. I was just thinking, perhaps my next girl I would name her Hermoine. But then again, not all people watch Harry Potter movies, and the risk of being called as per what the spelling says, is just a big turn off. I scrolled through a few YouTube videos, and stumbled upon a bunch of guys making fun of Potter, Weasley and Hermoine. It was done so creatively but caused so much humiliation not to the characters, but to themselves. I can't imagine people have got so much talent in acting and videotaping, but chose to waste their God-given talent by de-grading themselves.
 
Sometimes when I got some ideas to write, I wish I can have the brand new iPhone or Blackberry with the paid subsription, that allows me to straight away write and record when the ideas are still fresh. Unfortunately, my BB only has the basic communication tool. I have chosen not to subscribe to the full service which allows internet access 24 hours. Mind you Mr.X has all those gadgets and he is practically hooked up with the toys. If plus me, then all our children would be the victims of technology addicts (remember the 6-months old baby that died in Korea because the mom and dad were busy playing with video games?). *sigh*
 
Coming back to Hermoine. I wrote about my thoughts in my Facebook status (not that I always do), and people were shocked. Well, some people thought that having 3 kids are suficient in this modern world we live in. It all depends, I would say. It would be nice to have another kid - be it boy or girl. There are always pros and cons at having many children. It's the quality that matters, not the quantity. Sometimes when I have to spend hundreds to buy that diapers and mlik powder, a thought came across my mind that those single ones, or those married couple with no children, they must have got so much money to spend on themselves. Lucky them. Lucky or unlucky? Well, that relationship of money and happiness, no one can find the definite relation. Is it co-relate? Inversely related? Diagonally related? Only you can determine your level of happiness. Does it really depend on how much money you have? Money can't buy happiness, but all those that make you happy, must have some elements of financial related to it.
 
Thoughts of the day.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Di Mana Kan Ku Cari Ganti?

I received this yesterday. Worth sharing with those who are contemplating to come home after working abroad. It is a fact. We still have a 3rd world country mentality and the infra structure and the support system are a long way to go for Malaysia. But take this optimistically, it's for the good of the nation. I still love Malaysia, no matter what.

 
Ramlee was poached and enticed to return to Malaysia which he did in 1964. Wrong step it seems. All promises "back home in Malaysia" were not kept by his new masters. Sounds very very familiar here.
By The Ampas Man

Question:        Di Mana Kan Ku Cari Ganti?

 

Answer:          Not in Malaysia

 

Those who watched the heart wrenching P. Ramlee documentary on the History Channel on 31st October 2010 must have gone to bed with a heavy heart. It transpires that Malaysia's one and only film icon had died penniless and shunned by the public including his own colleagues. And the way it was done appears to have uncanny resemblances to what's happening today in Malaysia, almost 45 years after Ramlee returned to Malaysia.

 

The documentary, narrated by British actor, Timothy Watson and 12 years in the making included precious interviews by some of his friends, actors and actresses who had passed on. The underlying tone was one of profound melancholy.

 

Ramlee, borne out of poverty along Caunter Hall Road at an Achenese community in Penang, had to endure a brutal Japanese occupation whose schools incidentally inculcated a certain discipline in him. In his formative years then, this discipline proved crucial as a founding platform for his eventual brilliance, creativity and innovation in film and music.

 

He subsequently gained phenomenal success at Shaw brothers' Jalan Ampas studios in Singapore. His success at Jalan Ampas was the apparent result of the studio's incredible milieu of experienced film crew, choreographers and directors which the Shaw brothers had assembled from India, Hong Kong and Indonesia. With the load of management and finance off his shoulders, Ramlee was able to thrive and focus on his talent of creating music, acting and eventually direction, screenplay and editing.

 

The Shaw brothers invested and created such a conducive environment at Ampas that Singapore became the mecca for the Malay film industry for an entire genre of actors and actresses from the whole of the Malay Archipelago from Pontianak, Penang to Medan. Apart from Ramlee, Ampas provided careers for other actors and actresses like Nordin Ahmad, S. Kadarisman, Ahmad Daud, Normadiah, Saloma and Saadiah.

 

But this talent could not have been developed without the expertise of directors such as B. S. Rajan, L. Krishnan and Phani Majumdar. Directors such as Majumdar already had something like 15 years experience in directing films in various languages in Calcutta and Bombay before they came to Singapore. It was on this wealth of experience that the Malay film industry flourished.

 

Majumdar directed Ramlee in "Anakku Sazali" which won Ramlee Best Actor in 1956. And when Majumdar returned to India, he discovered another great Indian actor, Feroz Khan and directed Khan in his first big hit "Oonche Log" in 1965. Yes it was happy times then at No.8 Jalan Ampas and Boon Kheng Road. But it had to end. Or so it seems.

 

Things appear to have taken a turn for the worse during the confusion of the Malaysia-Singapore separation in 1963 when Lee Kuan Yew had trouble reigning a tight leash on Trade Unions involving Lim Chin Siong, and his own PAP leaders led by Che'Awang and Devan Nair.  Ramlee appears to have been an inadvertent victim of the unions' unreasonable demands leading Shaw brothers to call it a day at Jalan Ampas when they couldn't keep up with unions' demands for higher pay.

 

Other views suggest that Ramlee was poached and enticed to return to Malaysia which he did in 1964. Wrong step it seems. All promises "back home in Malaysia" were not kept by his new masters. Sounds very very familiar here. Merdeka studios was poorly equipped and its rookie staffing meant the legend had to multitask which ended up eventually in him churning out shoddy movies. All 18 movies he directed in Malaysia flopped. Sounds like the same stories we hear from some of our Malaysians "trying" to return home from overseas.

 

Ramlee lost his glitter, his money and apparently so his fame. His partner and colleague, H.M. Shah, tried to form a company called PERFIMA to enable Ramlee to relaunch his career and produce his dream of colour films. But PERFIMA apparently ended up in the hands of inexperienced and connected cronies leaving the talented Ramlee then, as in now, even as a Malay, blatantly unrecognized, ignored and out in the cold.

 

The documentary brutally exposes how Ramlee tried in vain to set up P. Ramlee productions, but was again shut out by this country's media and entertainment industry including RTM. He had to sit in the canteen at Ankasapuri while Saloma had her own show in RTM! He could not secure any government aid, grants or "Private Financial Initiatives" despite his passion for Malay music and culture.

 

He tried to reinvent himself and sought a bank loan – but was rejected! With his wealth of experience and in his early 40s then, he should have easily qualified. Poor Ramlee didn't know that in Malaysia it is the "know who" that counts then the "know how". If he had known George Tan from the Carrian Group then, Ramlee may have received a few million from BMF without even having to pay back. Or he should have "nurtured" some connections like how Daim, Halim Saad, Tajuddin Ramli, Syed Mokhtar and Amin Shah did.

 

Ramlee by now, tragically stressed out, overweight, disheveled, completely down and out with passion and spirit broken, had to now do almost any job he could including running mahjong tables and singing at weddings and other functions to put food on the table for his family. He had to live on rice and eggs. It was truly Air Mata di Kuala Lumpur for Ramlee. A court summons a day prior to his death for being a guarantor finally tipped the balance and done him in when he suffered a massive heart attack and he died on 29th May 1973 at the age of 44 years.

On the day he died, there was no rice in his house. And Saloma had no money for his funeral. The man and legend, P. Ramlee paid a very heavy price returning to Malaysia. The country just did not have the infrastructure, manpower and expertise to accommodate his enormous talent. He would have been better off in Singapore even with the unions there. He would not have gone broke in the club and wedding scene there and perhaps Singapore TV could have given him a break as compared to our own RTM. All the belated accolades and titles were a waste of time as far as the man himself was concerned. He died hopelessly broke and broken.

 

The documentary is not only an eye opener but a very good case study for anyone contemplating returning home to Malaysia. Whether you are a scientist, engineer, accountant, doctor, etc beware of the conditions enticing you to return. If your kid is an aerospace engineer, a naval architect or a transplant surgeon, it's a no brainer that he /she should not return at all unless you are absolutely sure the country has the infrastructure and skilled manpower to support these fields. Don't believe in these stories that you should come home to "help" and "develop" your areas of expertise. That's not going to happen. That sought of thing will only go to the chaps who have the connections. Assess any offer carefully and do not trust anyone including this government. Make certain all agreements are enforceable in Singapore and the UK .

 

In retrospect P. Ramlee, with no formal education but was able to compose more than 360 songs and 66 movies, probably returned to a society that was not developed nor had the brain power and skills to match up to his vision. In short he was just surrounded with a whole lot of officials and journalists with serious hang ups who were not interested in the industry itself. There was no driving force like another Shaw brothers.

 

And the prevailing attitude at that time and probably even now was and still is a third class mentality. In an environment such as this, no one with creativity, innovation, skills and brains can ever hope to survive let alone thrive. Its better they stay back where they can develop and nurture their talent. If a star as bright as Ramlee could be extinguished with such impunity, the rest are nothing. Ramlee and his entire family had been wiped out financially despite his immense talent. But he remains still till this day, the Malay Archipelago's cinematic legend.

 

With apologies.

 

Hancur badan dikandung tanah

Budi baik dikenang juga

Biar alam hancur dan musnah

Jasa mu tetap dikenang juga

 

THE AMPAS MAN